You are the way you are because that’s the way you want to be. If you really wanted to be any different, you would be making a radical change right now.
How to do you find insights?
How do you do thinks that are not obvious to others?
How to you create changes in your life?
At this point, ask yourself how you’re doing on your new year’s resolutions.
Have you achieved your new year’s resolutions?
Why hasn’t the change “stuck”?
Are you now going to start complaining? Will someone give you sympathy for your complaint?
Will the sympathy make you feel better? Does your sympathizer’s reaction keep you trapped in your behaviors that you want to change?
Do you really want to change?
If you “really want” change – take massive action right now.
Not in 5 mintues.
Not later tonight or tomorrow…
Do you really want change?